3 Things You Didn’t Know About Surrogacy

Thank you to Martin Pringle Adoption Professionals for sponsoring this post and to Attorney Megan Monsour for sharing her expertise with our community of moms.

The Wild West

 Kansas, like many other states, does not have any statutes governing third party reproduction, with the exception of a brief provision regarding sperm donation. Assisted reproductive technology (ART) is a relatively new and still developing area, both legally and medically. ART has been controversial since the first successful birth by a carrier, a little over 30 years ago.  Its controversy and the lightning pace at which the technology has progressed, has made it difficult to legislate.  

Unlike some states where gestational carriers are banned, with no statutory framework, gestational carriers in Kansas are legal and intended parents are free to work with their doctors and lawyers to determine the best plan for building a family.  Although no law is better than bad law, the lack of legislation does leave the door open to potential costly and emotional litigation should things get off track and require court intervention.   

You Say Potato

The word surrogacy has become the accepted term used when referring to third party reproduction in which a woman, not genetically related to the child she is carrying, becomes pregnant through the IVF process for the purpose of making someone else a parent(s). However, surrogacy (or surrogate when referring to the woman) does not accurately describe that set of facts, despite the common use of the word.  A woman who carries a child she is not genetically related to is a gestational carrier.  A surrogate, or a traditional surrogate, is a woman who becomes pregnant, for the purpose of making someone else a parent, typically through artificial insemination, but is genetically related to the child.  Her egg is used, and so she is biologically and legally the mother of the child. Traditional surrogacy is very uncommon today. Conceiving using a gestational carrier is becoming more and more common. 

Who’s on First

The number of people involved in third party reproduction may not be limited to the Intended Parents and Carrier.  While the Intended Parents can, and commonly are, the biological parents of the child, having provided all the genetic material (egg and sperm), ART has many more possibilities.  The embryo could be formed from donated genetic material as well.  One of the intended parents may not be able to provide the needed genetic material.  Donor egg and sperm can be used in part, where one of the intended parent’s genetic material is paired with donor material, making one of the intended parents a biological parent, either the mother or the father. Or, if donor material is needed for both the egg and sperm, the child may not be genetically related to either intended parent.  Some intended parents choose to use all donor material.

As an attorney who helps families navigate the world of third party reproduction, ART leaves me in awe. The medical technology that allows a couple to become parents of a child created with their genetic material by way of a gestational carrier is remarkable. No less remarkable, is the woman who takes on the awesome responsibility of carrying and delivering a child so that someone else can become a parent.

Kansas Adoption Martin PringleMegan Monsour is an attorney with Martin Pringle Adoption Professionals. Her practice is devoted to adoption, assisted reproductive technology (ART) and child permanency litigation. She is committed to helping individuals and families realize their dreams of building a family. Megan represents both adoptive families and biological parents in their adoption journey and in a variety of other matters as well, including contested adoptions, foster care adoptions, step-parent adoptions, relative adoption, same sex and second parent adoptions. Additionally, she represents intended parents and carriers in surrogacy agreements. Megan is a Fellow of the American Academy of Adoption Attorneys and has been recognized by Kansas and Missouri Super Lawyers as a Rising Star since 2011.

If you have questions about adoption, please feel free to contact Megan directly, at [email protected], or 316-265-9311.

For more information on Martin Pringle’s adoption & surrogacy practice, please visit their website.


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