Top 10 Fall Girls Night & Date Night Ideas in Wichita | 2023

The season is changing from the hot-hot heat of the summer to the clean, crisp autumn air. That doesn’t mean your romance has to cool off along with the earth’s orbit. The fall brings many ways to enjoy time with your partner. Here is a list of fall dating ideas to check out and reconnect with your partner!

Pumpkin Patches

Who doesn’t love a good pumpkin patch? While we generally take the kids along, this would be a romantic way to spend an afternoon or evening. Check out our guide to local pumpkin patches.


Kansas has some great trials to explore, so lace up and hit the open air together! Check out this list of paths to explore near Wichita.


Dine like the Parisians do, al fresco with your sweetie! Check out this post to plan the perfect Wichita picnic.

Adult Camp Out

Light a campfire, bring your favorite grilling meals, s’mores, beverages and of course your sweetie. Connect with nature and each other. Our guide for local camping spots will help you get started planning a night under the stars.

Ghost Hunting

In the mood for some spooky fun? Check out some of Wichita’s most haunted historical spots or sign up for a paranormal tour!


Fishing presents lots of opportunity to just slow down and talk with your significant other. The fall is a great time to hit a fishing hole. Here are some local places to try.

Bike Rides

Wichita offers several great trials to hop on your bikes and get your hearts pumping. Here is a guide to some of our favorite spots.

Fall Harvest Dinner

I love the food and flavors fall harvest brings along. Work together to plan, shop and cook a romantic fall harvest meal together and enjoy!

Fruit Picking

One of my favorite things about Wichita are the local farms that we can all enjoy. The area has several locations to gather your own apples and peaches. Here is our guide on local fruit picking in the fall.

Drive in Movies

Autumn nights under the stars, your date, snacks, and a good flick. Hit up the Starlite Drive-In for a great fall date.

Finding time to get away without the kids is tough, but oh so important for your relationship! We hope you get some time away to enjoy each other!

Nicole Nickel
Hi, I’m Nicole! I’m a mama to two kiddos: Scarlet and Easton, and wife to Justin. We also have 2 furbaby Labs. I am an Oklahoma girl, born and raised. I’ve been here in Wichita since October 2016. Moving from my home of Norman has been tough, but what a great community to relocate! We love to get out explore the area, finding fun family activities! In addition to mom and wife, I am speech-language pathologist. Some of my favorite things- I am a die-hard OU football fan (Boomer!), being outdoors, traveling, friends and family, wine and coffee!